For the last number of years I have recited this narrative to myself that I’m a bad writer. Declaring it out loud to my husband and therapist for the first time in the last six months as I painstakingly write cover letters.
In high school, I was on the school paper, in college, I took a journalism class in exploration of a writing career – then somewhere it stopped. I can’t remember exactly when but I know I used to love it. Now the only time I write – or in reality type works on a glaring screen – are all in situations where I feel immense anxiety.
The light bulb clicked so brightly this morning.
Work, applying for new jobs, texting with people (thank you social anxiety) – these are the only situations where I am routinely writing and my anxiety tends to strip my mind of all rational thoughts leaving me paralyzed with fear. It’s fun.
I need to create time and space for me to write without dread and apprehension. I need to retrain my mind that sitting down with a journal, with a computer… will not always make my mind go blank or my heart race. I need to write for fun.
That is what this website will be for now. A place to write for fun, to practice, to grow and whatever else the future holds.
Welcome.